quote for the day


hay buhay

pipilitin ko’ng di muling sumablay
o ang puso ko hindi na muling bumigay

One last cry

”Move on,i guess its the best for the both of us”…..this is what he told me.

Should i beg?should i say i dont like?should i hold on?or should i just turn my back and walk away?….

I just kept quiet.when he finished explaining i just said ok, will do whatever you say…then just put the phone down…. everything just replayed on my mind.from the day i met him till right at the moment when he told me to move on.tears were just coming down…i couldnt help it….im so much in pain…..

Rang my parents,the people who loves me so much…..cried to them….really cried myself out…..thanxs to them i know they are always there for me no matter what….

Life has to go on for me.i know that i did everything for him…but i guess we are not meant to be together…

One last cry…..then thats it……for u, for me, and for what might have been a wonderful relationship…….

Goodluck to u……thanx…..

the right one


Somebody once told me that :

“Finding the right person is very hard and very wrong…
it is best to be the right person for the one you love and start from
there…you’ll always end up disappointed when you set standards and
define a “right person” for you…and don’t rush things coz somewhere
somehow God is preparing somebody for you.”

Don’t be in a hurry to get into a relationship
because you can never find love
if you insist that you are already into it.
Try to find time to really understand your real feelings,
to know who you really are,
and what you really want in a relationship.
You’re right, there’s no such thing as a perfect relationship, but
there’s a compatible partnership that goes along with it. If you already
knew that you’re too big to fit into a small sized t-shirt, don’t give
it a try. You’ll probably break it and pay for the damages you have

If you knew and felt that the relationship
will not last, don’t go deeper into it.
You’ll just suffer the consequences
and live like hell for the rest of your life.
It’s really hard to say goodbye though,
but you can’t make it any better by just pretending
you still have the same feelings.
Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live life to the fullest.
Give yourself a chance to grow and give your heart a much needed
attention. Then you will find that you have made the right decision and
you made it all by yourself.

We call it love when we can’t leave someone and see
them crying as we try to let go.
We are wrong, it’s just pity.
We call it love when we’re too attached
and think that losing the one we love will somehow
make us weak and unable to face the storms of life.
We misunderstood, its just that we’re
too much dependent to them.
We call it love when we give our whole life to them,
the wholeness of us and imagined that if they leave,
no one would accept us and our past.
We are mistaken, its just insecurity.
But no matter what the definition is, the truth still remains that love
isn’t something you can buy or beg. It is real and existing. You can’t
touch it but you can feel it in your heart. You can’t find it, but it
will knock before you when you least expect it to come. It can make you
the happiest soul in heaven, but don’t forget that it can also make you
the most miserable person in the whole galaxy…

being single….

a friend of mine sent me this.and since i am, again, single…..might as well put in mind the beauty of being single…..hope it works for me….and be able to get back once more to loving and accepting being single…..

Being Single

All your life, you had specific dreams about what your family would be like when you finally married. You were so intent on what you wanted, you even made a list of qualities and characteristics you were looking for in a spouse, in a home, in your job, in your children. But time passed, and that person you were so intent on didn’t come along. All of your friends married, had children, had beautiful homes. And still you were single. You prayed and prayed and prayed for that person to come along, but nothing happened. You had a good job. You served in your church. You spent daily time with the Lord in prayer and studying the Word. You dedicated your life toserving God in every way possible, but still nothing. So you decided to take matters into your own hands, and you began an active search for amate. And within a short period, you met someone who almost fit the bill. Almost. Sure, there were a few things missing, a few rusty spots in that person’s character. But, after all, no one is perfect. Of course, your friends and your pastor tried to counsel you that you were making a poor choice and that you should wait for the Lord to send theright person. But that couldn’t be right. You had waited for a long time. Maybe your goals were too high. Maybe you’d been asking for the impossible. Maybe this was the person God wanted for you so your character could grow through dealing with his or her failings. So you married. And your life went down hill from there. Even though it often seems that God is slow to answer prayers, no matter whether it’s about a mate, or a job, or our children, or our finances,or anything else, we have to remember that God doesn’t wear a watch. Nor does He look at our human calendars. He sees with eternal eyes. He operateson an eternal timetable, according to His plan and His schedule. If God seems to be running late, don’t get impatient and run ahead of him. Wait for the Lord’s timing in everything.

To the single folks out there, this is for you.
Single means you have the time to grow and be the person you want to be.
Single gives you space to grow. Sometimes, it is harder to grow when you are too close to someone. Trees are planted far apart so they can spreadtheir branches and become strong as they mature.
Single means learning to live by yourself. However, that is no more difficult than learning to live with somebody else.
Single means freedom. You are free to spend a week’s vacation on the beach, to take computer courses, to work late on an interesting project, to spend the day in bed with a good book or simply with a person who has read one.
Single means learning not to need a man/woman to make your life meaningful but learning to live with a man/woman because you want to be with him/her. Ironically, yet quite happily, single is feeling good about being in control of your life. It is liking and respecting who you are.
Single is realizing that being married is not necessarily better, it is merely different.
Single means that there could be something wonderful around the corner and you can take advantage of it.
Single means you are free to love again.
Whatever decisions that you have made in your life is part of your growing experience… part of life. Whatever decisions that you have to make will influence or affect your future. So think hard before deciding on certain things. PRAY TO GOD and HE will show you the way. (now hus the man?!)

kung ayaw mo wag mo….

Kung ayaw mo wag mo

Hari ng dedmahan ang
Teleponong apat na
Magdamag ng ‘di umiimik
Kung ‘di ka tatawagan
May pag-asa kayang
Maisip mo ako’t biglang ma-miss

Hindi kita mapipilit kung ayaw mo
‘wag mo akong isipin bahala ka

Hindi kita mapipigil kung balak mong
Ako’y iwanang nag-iisa

P’wes walkathon ako patungo riyan
Isosoli ko lang lahat ng mga sulat mo
At me-katok pa yata’ng doorbell n’yo
Magtatatlong oras na’ko rito… hello!

Hindi kita mapipilit kung ayaw mo
‘wag mo akong isipin bahala ka

Hindi kita mapipigil kung balak mong
Ako’y iwanang nag-iisa

Kung ayomo ‘wag, Kung ayomo ‘wag,
Kung ayomo, kung ayaw mo, huwag mo!
Kung ayomo ‘wag, Kung ayomo ‘wag
Kung ayomo, kung ayaw mo, huwag mo!

More lyrics: http://www.lyricsfreak.com/r/rivermaya/#share


You did everything already.actually more than what is expected.its making you crazy already,destroying your life,making you stagnant.making you sad.all the signs are in front of you already….stop….you have to stop….stop now…..

Helping yourself is the solution.by doing this you get over the pain and sadness.there are so many things to do to achieve happiness.look…..just look and you would find….

GOD would never forsake you…just listen…..

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