the right one

THE RIGHT ONE

Somebody once told me that :

“Finding the right person is very hard and very wrong…
it is best to be the right person for the one you love and start from
there…you’ll always end up disappointed when you set standards and
define a “right person” for you…and don’t rush things coz somewhere
somehow God is preparing somebody for you.”

Don’t be in a hurry to get into a relationship
because you can never find love
if you insist that you are already into it.
Try to find time to really understand your real feelings,
to know who you really are,
and what you really want in a relationship.
You’re right, there’s no such thing as a perfect relationship, but
there’s a compatible partnership that goes along with it. If you already
knew that you’re too big to fit into a small sized t-shirt, don’t give
it a try. You’ll probably break it and pay for the damages you have
made.

If you knew and felt that the relationship
will not last, don’t go deeper into it.
You’ll just suffer the consequences
and live like hell for the rest of your life.
It’s really hard to say goodbye though,
but you can’t make it any better by just pretending
you still have the same feelings.
Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live life to the fullest.
Give yourself a chance to grow and give your heart a much needed
attention. Then you will find that you have made the right decision and
you made it all by yourself.

We call it love when we can’t leave someone and see
them crying as we try to let go.
We are wrong, it’s just pity.
We call it love when we’re too attached
and think that losing the one we love will somehow
make us weak and unable to face the storms of life.
We misunderstood, its just that we’re
too much dependent to them.
We call it love when we give our whole life to them,
the wholeness of us and imagined that if they leave,
no one would accept us and our past.
We are mistaken, its just insecurity.
But no matter what the definition is, the truth still remains that love
isn’t something you can buy or beg. It is real and existing. You can’t
touch it but you can feel it in your heart. You can’t find it, but it
will knock before you when you least expect it to come. It can make you
the happiest soul in heaven, but don’t forget that it can also make you
the most miserable person in the whole galaxy…